Population ratio between men and women

Usually women have a higher birth rate than men. This is a sign that nature wants men not to be satisfied with one wife in the matter of marriage. Hakim-ul-Ummah (may Allaah have mercy on him) said:

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There are more women than men in the world and this is a clear proof that a man can have many wives, but not the will of nature.

Hazrat Mufti Rashid Ahmad Sahib (may Allah have mercy on him) says:

The prevalence of men and women is also observed to be transmitted. Firstly, the birth rate of women is high and the number of men is low. Secondly, only men are destroyed in world wars, so if the issue of polygamy is not recognized. Where will so many men come from for women’s rewards?

 

Muslim girls who are guilty with others?

Today, for the past few years, there have been reports in the newspapers that a girl has left home with an acquaintance without the consent of her family, but the matter has now escalated to such an extent that Muslim girls Just a few days ago, a scholar interested in the collective and religious affairs of Muslims revealed the fact that in an industrial city near my hometown, there were more than 200 Muslim girls. Has married non-Muslims and even more tragic news is that the 24-year-old daughter of a wealthy father with a highly educated appearance in Hyderabad marries a 40-year-old Hindu of cobbler caste after falling in love. And when it comes to formalizing the marriage, the girl’s so-called Muslim father enthusiastically participates in the ceremony with more than fifty of his relatives, this and the kind of news that adorns the newspapers every day. Are becoming a reflection of the fact that in the present era, Muslims are losing not only their religion and morals but also their identity. Are

With this news, Muslims, especially the youth and especially the pious youth, are suffering from deep anxiety and anxiety. Many nationally respected columnists are also expressing their grief and anger in the newspapers. Someone called it an RSS conspiracy. Some people are blaming the girl and some people are pointing out the unnecessary rituals found in the society related to marriage as the real cause of the disease.

All these things are true and true in their place but how did the agent of RSS reach these girls, why did these girls take such a rebellious step and why did society make such cruel customs obligatory? Knowingly or unknowingly all people seem to turn a blind eye to these reasons and even if one pays attention to it, one seems to mention it at the very end of one’s article and in very subdued words.

Therefore, it is necessary for the zealous and intelligent people of the nation to find the real cause, identify who is the real culprit instead of the RSS and clarify what the Shariah rules are for such rebellious steps of girls so that the disease can be cured. Otherwise it can be cured, “Lehlak min an binat wa yahi min hay an binat” so that whoever dies perishes on the basis of evidence and whoever survives on the basis of evidence [recognizes the truth].

The root cause of evil:

To my poor knowledge, the root cause of this evil is the lack of religion and the lack of religious environment in Muslim families. Today, our children do not know what it means to be a Muslim. Why are we Muslims? What is the basic and real difference between us and a disbeliever, they do not know that a Muslim is the guardian of Islam on condition that the disbeliever is the enemy of Allah, the Messenger of Allah and the Muslims: [إِنَّ الكَافِرِينَ كَانُوا لَكُمْ عَدُوًّا مُبِينًا ] {النساء: 101} “Believe! The disbelievers are your open enemies.” O you who believe! Do not befriend me and your enemies, you are only sending a message to them, and they disbelieve in the truth that has come to you. ”

Then how is it possible for the Wali of Allah to make the enemy of Allah Almighty his friend and for a woman who believes in the Qur’an and the Prophet to make a vow to live with her real enemy Allah and her own enemy? Could there be any greater enmity than to have someone take you out of a lush garden and a place of rest and adornment and put you in a place of burning fire and endless sorrow and longing: The light and those who disbelieve are the outcasts. ] Take out and lead to the darkness.

When Hazrat Umm Salim became a widow, Abu Talhah, the son of a nobleman of Madinah, sent a message of marriage. At that time, Umm Salim had become a Muslim and Abu Talhah had not yet become a Muslim, so Umm Salim replied bluntly. He rejected his message: O Abu Talha! By Allah, your status is such that your message should not be rejected, but the problem is that you are a kaafir and I am a Muslim woman, and it is not proper for a Muslim woman to marry a kaafir.

{Musnad Ahmad, Sunan Nisa’i

Even though the order to annul the marriage of a Muslim and an infidel had not yet been revealed, look at the honor and self-respect of a Muslim woman who did not want to put herself under the protection and supervision of an infidel.

The main culprit:

According to my analysis, the real culprits of this misbehavior of girls are their fathers and also their mothers in this crime. Part of the reason is that the parents did not keep their home environment religious, nor did they teach their children religious values, nor did they tell the real difference between a believer and a disbeliever. All their attention was focused on getting my daughter a higher education. He should get a good job but he did not pay any attention to whether my daughter would remain a Muslim in these circumstances or not. They were worried in the morning and in the evening that my daughter would become a doctor, an engineer, but also a believer and a Muslim, they may never have thought about it, they must have tried to get my daughter to get good marks. He got a good tutor but never thought about whether my daughter’s teacher is a master of religion and morals or not. If my daughter had passed the exam with low marks, she would have expressed her anger and threatened to kill him. If the girl had neglected to pray, she would not have had a blush on her forehead. Her focus would have been on my daughter speaking and understanding English, but she would never have thought that it was just a translation of the Qur’an. In order to make them forget the real responsibilities entrusted to them by Allah Almighty, they do not even remember what responsibility Allah and His Messenger have placed on us as children.

[O ye who believe!

The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: If Allaah gives a slave the responsibility of his subjects and he dies while he is cheating on his subjects, then Allaah will forbid him Paradise.

{Sahih Bukhari and Sahih Muslim.

Every conscious parent is asked what could be a greater deception in this world and what could be more deceptive for a father to acquaint his children with the things that are useful in the temporary life of this world and any attention to the things that will be useful in the eternal life of the hereafter. No, by Allah, there is no greater deception and betrayal in the world than this, so a father who does not acquaint his children with the basics of religion, does not teach them religion, does not teach them the rules of hijab and veil, with non-men. He does not stop mixing and solitude, does not keep away from nudity, etc. etc. He is the biggest deceiver and traitor with his children, then if a girl takes a wrong step, then everyone deserves shame and humiliation in this world and painful punishment in the hereafter. More than his father.

[2] An important point to consider on this occasion is that from the Shariah point of view, the permission of the guardian is necessary for the marriage of a girl, but any marriage which takes place without the permission of the guardian is void and illegal. The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: If a woman marries without the permission of her guardian, then her marriage is void, her marriage is void, and her marriage is void.

Sunan Abu Dawood, Sunan al-Tirmidhi

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In another hadith, the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: No woman should marry a woman and no woman should marry herself, and they are adulteresses and prostitutes who marry themselves [without the permission of the guardian].

{Sunan Ibn Majah.

Therefore, it should be borne in mind that if the court marriages and low-marriages are not remedied, then they are victims of adultery according to sharee’ah and their offspring will be considered haraam offspring. This is the case if the boy the girl is marrying is a Muslim, but if a girl marries a non-Muslim, even with the permission of the guardian, then the matter is more dangerous than the most dangerous because according to sharee’ah But such a marriage is void and moreover, such an act is an apostasy from disbelief and religion. Allaah says (interpretation of the meaning): {الممتحنة: 10} “These believing women are not lawful for them, that is, for the disbelievers, and that disbelieving man is not lawful for them, ie, Muslim women.” These two verses show that a Muslim woman marries a disbeliever It cannot happen until he voluntarily becomes a Muslim, so to consider it permissible, to agree to it, to agree to it is to go back to disbelief and religion unanimously according to the scholars, so the matter is very dangerous. Yes, a girl who wants or is marrying a non-Muslim and her parents, even if they agree with her, should keep in mind that their daughter and she herself have left Islam and converted to Kufr. Entering, separating from the group of saints of Allah Almighty and joining the enemies of Allah Almighty and the saints of Satan, and finally the people of Paradise. Withdrawing from the group, they are entering the group of the inmates of Hell. Such a person, even if he prays, fasts, but since he considers the work forbidden by Allaah to be lawful, he is a disbeliever. It is agreed that: This is because they followed a path that angered Allaah, and they disliked the work of pleasing Allaah, so Allaah made all their deeds null and void.

And as for those who disbelieve, for them is the fire of hell, in which their judgment will not come that they may die, nor will the chastisement of hell be lightened for them. Thus do We recompense every disbeliever. They will shout in Hell: “Our Lord! Get us out! Now we will do good deeds, contrary to what we used to do. [But Allah will say:” Did We not give you such a long life? The one who had to understand could understand and the warner would reach you, so enjoy, there is no helper for such oppressors.